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”If you wait for people to travel, you’ll wait forever.” I’ve lived(and traveled) by this motto for the past nine years and it’s led me to over 30 countries solo. Most recently, it led me to Brazil for Carnival with Luxe Tribes and I’m so glad that I didn’t have to wait around for others to make it happen. I’ve been wanting to experience this legendary celebration for YEARS, but none of my friends could ever make it work. I was blessed to be invited on a Luxe Tribes Group Trip, a Black-owned travel agency specializing in luxury group trips for Black women,  and I’m here to report back on the trip of a life-time. 

Though I will always advocate for solo travel, Carnival called for community – both for safety in a party/festival environment and in order to effectively navigate Brazil’s language barriers. While I could have done Carnival solo, Luxe Tribes effortlessly executed a trip that met all of my desires and beyond. The true magic? Being surrounded by Black women who just *got* eachother, creating an instant connection that isn’t always easy to come by. 

In this Luxe Tribes Group Trip review, I’m breaking down my entire experience traveling to Rio for Carnival with this Black women travel group. I’ll spill all the tea – the good, the real, and everything you need to know if you’re considering traveling with Luxe Tribes on one of their luxury group trips for Black women.

Where I Traveled with Luxe Tribes

I traveled to Brazil with Luxe Tribes February 26 to March 6 2025 for the biggest Carnival celebration in the world. The trip included a 6-day, 5-night stay at a luxury hotel on Copacabana Beach. 

Who I Traveled With – Luxe Tribes

Luxe Tribes is a Black-owned travel agency that organizes some of the best trips for Black female professionals looking for upscale travel experiences worldwide. They plan trips that focus on cultural immersion and authentic experiences without sacrificing comfort and quality. After spending my early twenties hostel-hopping and riding on the struggle bus, my thirties are all about treating myself when the occasion calls for it – and Luxe Tribes definitely delivers in that department.

You can join a Luxe Tribes small group trip with up to 16 like-minded travelers or they can execute a personalized itinerary that will give you the best overview of the destination of your choice. I had the opportunity to experience both their private and group tour options, which were both planned out perfectly. 

I’ve traveled with many group companies before, but meeting the other Luxe Tribe travelers in Rio showed me that the quality of Black women LT attracts is what sets them apart. Being surrounded by brilliant, accomplished Black women who not only shared my passion for travel but also understood my lived experiences? Priceless.

How many of us have friends who can’t get PTO, can’t afford to travel, or simply don’t prioritize seeing the world? That same dilemma is what made me start traveling solo in the first place and ain’t nobody got time for that. With a Luxe Tribes group trip, you’re instantly placed with women who value these experiences just as much as you do.

Who is a Luxe Tribes group trip for? 

  • Black women travelers who want luxury AND authentic travel experiences
  • Solo travelers who want safety and community while exploring
  • First time solo travelers who want to go solo without going completely alone
  • Professional women who work hard and want their vacation to truly FEEL like a vacation. No planning necessary! 
  • Travelers who need the perfect balance of structured activities and free time.
  • Women looking to build genuine connections with other like-minded Black female professionals

Why travel to Brazil for Carnival with Luxe Tribes?

Why NOT do Carnival solo or with a small group of friends? As yall know, I never back down from a solo challenge but one thing is for sure – I would NOT recommend doing Carnival solo. Here’s why: 

  • With Carnival bringing in tens of millions of travelers to Brazil, advance planning is a must. Day tours sell out quickly, traffic is chaotic, etc. Without local connections on the ground like Luxe Tribes provides, planning may be difficult to manage.  
  • The language barrier in Brazil is significant. I met less than 5 people who spoke English across 3 weeks in Brazil. If language barriers overwhelm you, then you’ll feel pretty out of place while trying to navigate the biggest event in the country for 1 week straight. This means booking transportation, reservations, etc. will be a constant struggle. With Luxe Tribes, you’ll have local guides on the ground who speak Portuguese. They’ll take care of the logistics for you. 
  • You must be very vigilant about safety in Brazil in general but things get much crazier during Carnival. A luxury group for Black women offers safety in numbers when enjoying block parties and nighttime festivities. I would never recommend partying alone in Brazil, but that’s the entire point of Carnival, so you’d miss out on the main events if you chose to go solo.

How Booking A Trip With Luxe Tribes Works

Booking a Luxe Tribes group trip is straightforward:

1. Visit Luxetribes.com to browse available trips

2. Select a trip based on your interests, dates, and budget

3. Make a down payment to secure your spot

4. Pay the remainder in monthly installments or all at once

5. Receive pre-trip information, including a PowerPoint presentation about the destination and what to expect

6. Join a group chat with other travelers to connect before the trip

7. Show up and enjoy your trip with everything planned for you!

What’s Included in the Luxe Tribes Trip Price?

This will vary depending on which destination you choose, but my 6-day, 5-night Carnival trip in Rio De Janeiro included:

  • 5 nights at a luxury hotel on Copacabana Beach
  • Daily breakfast and five included meals
  • Welcome dinner at Fogo de Chão, a premier steakhouse
  • Airport transfers and transportation to all included activities
  • Christ the Redeemer tour with a professional photographer
  • Helicopter tour over Rio
  • Sugarloaf Mountain and Selarón Steps excursion
  • Cooking class or forest tour option
  • Samba dance class
  • Professional makeup for Carnival
  • Tickets to the Sambadrome for the Carnival parade
  • Local guides and full-time assistance
  • Luxe Tribes group trip goodie bag

Is Luxe Tribes Worth The Cost?

Let’s be honest – traveling with Luxe Tribes(and group travel in general) isn’t the cheapest way to experience Brazil. However, you’ll receive an amazing value for your trip investment:

  • Convenience: Everything is planned and booked for you, saving countless hours of research and coordination.
  • Access: Carnival tickets, restaurant reservations, and activities during peak season are secured on your behalf the moment you book your trip. No thoughts, just vibes! 
  • Quality: Luxury accommodations and experiences that have been vetted
  • Safety: Traveling with a group and having local guides in a city known for safety concerns
  • Expertise: Local knowledge that helps you avoid tourist traps and experience the destination authentically
  • Peace of mind: No stress about logistics, transportation, or language barriers

So while you might pay more upfront compared to planning everything yourself, the time saved, stress avoided, and quality of experiences gained makes it worthwhile for those who value these aspects of travel.

How Much Free Time Do You Get with Luxe Tribes?

One of my favorite aspects of traveling with Luxe Tribes was the balance between structured activities and free time. The trip was roughly 50/50:

Mornings and early afternoons were typically dedicated to guided activities and tours while later afternoons and some evenings were free to explore on your own. You’ll have a free day, and ultimately all activities are your choice to attend. 

They’ve set it up so that you’ll have enough day tours to ensure you don’t miss the highlights, but plenty of down-time to do your own thing or simply relax at the beach or hotel.

Should You Sign Up to Travel with Luxe Tribes Alone?

Absolutely! As someone who advocates for solo travel, I found traveling with Luxe Tribes to be ideal for solo travelers because you’ll instantly have a group of like-minded travelers to share experiences with. You can join group activities when you want and explore independently when you need time to recharge your batteries.

What’s It Like Traveling with Strangers?

I know what you’re thinking – “Girl, isn’t it awkward being stuck with people you don’t know?” It can be a bit uncomfortable in the beginning, but you quickly build bonds over shared experiences. With a max group size of 16, Luxe Tribes’ group trips are big enough to find your people but small enough not to feel like a tourist herd. There’s ALWAYS someone down to join whatever random activity you want to do during free time and there’s zero pressure to stick with the group 24/7 – unless you want to, of course. That pre-trip group chat helps break the ice before you even land and the welcome dinner on day 1 will help the group break the ice upon arrival. 

What really blew me away was meeting multiple women who were on their 2nd, 3rd, even 5th Luxe Tribes group trip! When people keep coming back, you know the company must be doing something right. These repeat travelers shared stories from their previous trips and how Luxe Tribes had handled any issues that came up with care and professionalism. They mentioned seeing consistent improvements based on customer feedback, which is exactly what you want from a travel company.

What Are the Accommodations Like?

Luxe Tribes booked us a stay at the Grand Mercure Rio de Janeiro Copacabana. I loved it so much I paid extra to stay longer after the trip!

They nailed it with the accommodation because the hotel was perfectly situated for an event like Carnival. It was just steps away from Copacabana Beach. I’m talking walk across the street and your toes are in the sand. Not to mention, so many Carnival street parties (blocos) happened right outside of the hotel. When there’s that much traffic and chaos in the city, being able to just walk downstairs to join the fun instead of finding transportation is a game-changer.

The hotel offered room service(which I definitely utilized a time or two), buffet breakfast to feast on before long day tours, and a rooftop pool to watch the sunset from.

Choosing the wrong accommodation location in Brazil could cost you in more ways than one. Back in 2019, I booked what I thought was a cute Airbnb in Rio, and ended up witnessing a literal shootout on my street! This hotel was in a secure area with doormen and proper security. This is why it’s crucial to travel with a tour company that doesn’t cut corners on any aspect of trip planning or logistics. 

What’s Transportation Like?

Transportation was seamless throughout the trip:

  • Airport transfers were included and on time
  • Dedicated drivers for all excursions
  • No need to navigate public transportation or deal with language barriers
  • No worries about finding reliable and safe taxis or Ubers (which can be challenging in Rio)
  • Consistency in drivers built trust and eliminated safety concerns

The value of reliable transportation cannot be overstated during Carnival when the city is extremely congested and ride services are in high demand.

Do You Need to Speak the Language in Brazil?

The language barrier in Brazil is no joke. This is where traveling with Luxe Tribes was a lifesaver:

  • Local guides handled all the communication with drivers, restaurants, and attractions
  • I didn’t have to stress about negotiating prices or getting directions. Guides informed us how much we should be paying for street snacks, souvenirs, etc. 
  • The pre-trip materials included helpful Portuguese phrases (but honestly, even my attempts at pronunciation got blank stares)
  • All bookings and reservations were handled in advance

If you’re planning to go, start practicing on Duolingo NOW. Even just basic phrases will help, though be prepared for rapid-fire responses you won’t understand. Having guides who speak the language fluently was one of the most valuable parts of this trip.

How’s the Food?

My Luxe Tribes package included: 

  • Welcome dinner at Fogo de Chão, Rio’s premier steakhouse. Everything was on point! 
  • Lunches at restaurants with stunning views of the city, which would have been difficult to book independently during Carnival.

Finding good restaurants on my own after the trip was actually quite challenging, which proves the value of having local experts select the best dining venues. 

How’s Customer Service?

The customer service from Luxe Tribes was excellent from start to finish:

  • Pre-trip communication was on point with detailed information, timely responsiveness, and a helpful PowerPoint presentation about the destination
  • Local guides and staff available 24/7 on the ground
  • Local guides were accommodating and quick to resolve any issues that arose. When one activity had to be rescheduled due to traffic, they quickly arranged an alternative day and time so the group wouldn’t miss out
  • The local guides were professional yet warm. They remembered preferences and made everyone feel valued, which isn’t always easy with a big group.

My Personal Experience on my Carnival Trip in Rio With Luxe Tribes 

My top 5 experiences included: 

1. The Helicopter Tour – Rio has one of the top five cityscapes in the world, so seeing Christ the Redeemer, Sugarloaf Mountain, and those beaches from above? Life changing.

2. Professional Photos at Christ the Redeemer

As someone who’s usually the one behind the camera on solo trips, having a professional photographer at one of the Seven Wonders of the World was a serious highlight. I’ve visited six wonders and have awkward selfies or random tourist-taken photos from all of them except this one! Now I’ve got professional shots that didn’t involve me asking strangers to take 15 versions.

3. Exploring the Santa Teresa Neighborhood 

This charming, quiet neighborhood was the perfect contrast to the high-energy beach areas. I visited Rio back in 2019 and never even heard about this spot – it wasn’t on any of my Pinterest boards or TikTok recommendations. This is exactly why traveling with a luxury group trip for Black women that has real local knowledge makes such a difference.

4. Carnival Done RIGHT

Getting tickets to the Sambadrome without the stress, having a professional makeup artist, and experiencing everything with a group of other Black female travelers? This was truly a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and I’m so glad I didn’t have to DIY it.

5. Learning to Samba (Kind Of)

Dancing is the heartbeat of Brazil and Carnival itself, so having the opportunity to learn from actual Brazilian dancers gave me a deeper appreciation for what I was seeing at the parades. The fact that they offered this cultural experience (alongside a cooking class option) showed that Luxe Tribes really crafted a well-rounded culturally immersive trip.

Would I Recommend Traveling with Luxe Tribes?

Without hesitation, ABSOLUTELY YES! Especially for:

  • Black women who want to travel solo safely without sacrificing authentic experiences or nightlife. 
  • First-timers to Brazil who don’t want to deal with that learning curve during the chaos of Carnival
  • Anyone who wants to kick back and relax on vacation without stressing about logistics
  • Black female professionals looking for elevated travel experiences

After hitting 70+ countries through all kinds of travel styles, Luxe Tribes stands out as the absolute best tour company for Black female professionals. They understand our specific needs and preferences in a way that generic travel companies just won’t get.

My General Tips for Traveling to Brazil for Carnival

  • Start practicing your Portuguese NOW!
  • Research activities & restaurants for your free timeI saved some TikToks of restaurants and spots I wanted to check out during downtime.
  • Get an eSIM. I used Holafly which gave me unlimited data throughout my trip with no issues. Having data is non-negotiable for maps, translation apps, and staying connected abroad – especially in Rio, since you won’t be able to use a physical sim card as a tourist 
  • Bring a backup phone device for safety – I packed an old iPhone as theft can be common in Rio, especially with the crowds during Carnival
  • Purchase travel insurance so you can be reimbursed incase of lost luggage, theft,  medical emergencies, or transportation issues 
  • Extend your trip like I did to explore other parts of Carnival such as Salvador – the Blackest city outside of Africa
  • Limit cash carried. I used Apple Pay for almost everything in Rio, which was super convenient. If your cards get stolen, you can still use your phone to pay. I only took about $50 cash out of the hotel per day and I used my card for bigger purchases
  • Leave any expensive clothing or jewelry at home. I met a girl whose necklace was literally snatched right off her neck at a ‘bloco’ party. Better safe than sorry
  • NEVER walk alone in Rio, especially at night. Take Ubers everywhere if you’re not with the group. I know multiple people who got robbed trying to walk short distances, even in “good” areas
  • Print copies of your passport and store it digitally (I email it to myself)

What to Pack for Carnival

  • Liquid IV for hydration in the heat, while drinking alcohol, etc.
  • Portable fan for the strong Rio sun
  • Fanny pack
  • Money belt to avoid pickpocketing
  • Colorful clothing
  • Comfortable walking shoes
  • High SPF sunscreen
  • Packable shopping bag. Stop by Farm Rio for some vacay dresses and customize your own flip-flops at Havaianas

My Final Thoughts On Traveling with Luxe Tribes 

If it weren’t for Luxe Tribes, then another year would have flown by without me crossing Carnival off of my bucket-list. What could have been a stressful, potentially overwhelming experience turned into one of the most memorable trips of my life. Having traveled to so many places solo, I was honestly shocked at how much I enjoyed having everything handled for me while still having the freedom to do my own thing. 

For my fellow Black women travelers out there, especially those who work demanding jobs and don’t have time(or the desire) to research every little detail – this Black-owned travel agency will curate the ultimate adventure that will suit your travel needs. Luxe Tribes has a true understanding of our unique needs in various destinations around the world such as Brazil, Bali, Thailand, and many more. On top of that, their built-in community is something that you just can’t put a price on. 

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized how difficult it can be to find people who share both my love for travel and my lived experiences as a Black woman. The women I met through Luxe Tribes were accomplished, intelligent, and inspiring. If you refuse to wait for the trip to make it out of the group chat in 2025 and beyond, then there’s no better tour company for you to travel with than Luxe Tribes. 

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How To Practice Self Care While Traveling Solo https://heyciara.com/practiceselfcaresolotravel/ https://heyciara.com/practiceselfcaresolotravel/#comments Tue, 30 Jun 2020 22:52:25 +0000 https://heyciara.com/practiceselfcaresolotravel/  Traveling alone has really taught me to tune into how I’m feeling and…well, since there’s nobody to distract me, I must constantly ask myself where I’m at - mentally.

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HALT!!

Pause.

Stop right there.

Are you hungry? Angry? lonely? Tired? These are questions I use to check in with myself when I’m traveling, especially solo. There are so many moving parts that make it easy to overlook our basic needs while traveling. Interestingly enough, this weird time at home has caused me to check in just as much, if not more – despite the fact that nothing at all seems to be happening. Here’s what that usually looks like and how it looks now: ⁣

Hungry

“Have I eaten? Have I drank enough water? I’ve gone from bus to train to plane without eating. I should probably eat.” ⁣

Angry

“Has anyone or anything pissed me off? That train I missed? The person that cut me in line? Do I need to process anything or let something/someone go?” Time to whip out the journal, meditate/pray, workout, turn on my favorite song, etc. These are all things that can be done currently in the comfort of your home. ⁣⁣

Lonely

Do I need to phone a friend? Do I need to move from my stunning(but lonely) Airbnb/hotel to a hostel so that I can be around others? Maybe I should go to the park or a local coffee shop.” Right now? You might use the House Party app to Facetime friends or social distance with a friend outdoors. ⁣

Tired

“I live for an adventure, but Lord knows I need my rest. Should I stay in and catch up on sleep tonight? Do I need to take a nap?” Currently, if you’re anything like me, you may ask yourself if living like a nocturnal creature is serving you. Shoutout to quarantine sleep patterns! ⁣


We ALL know what it’s like to be HANGRY, let alone all of these things at once. Once we take a tiny bite of food we feel like ourselves again. Traveling alone has really taught me to tune into how I’m feeling and well since there’s nobody to distract me, I must constantly ask myself where I’m at – mentally. Oftentimes, I simply need to attune to my basic needs. It usually makes a world of difference in the end. ⁣

Many people are currently alone and I know that it may be strange to feel so much at once. Don’t forget to check in with yourself!

How are you feeling?

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The Importance Of Optimism  https://heyciara.com/frostbankfrostitforward/ https://heyciara.com/frostbankfrostitforward/#comments Fri, 31 Jan 2020 23:02:51 +0000 https://heyciara.com/frostbankfrostitforward/ Travel and life have taught me that miracles can happen and people are mostly kind.

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This post is sponsored by Frost Bank. All opinions are my own.

Let’s talk about optimism. At the end of the day, perspective is everything. If there’s anything I’ve learned throughout this journey of mine, it’s that optimism is key. Travel and life have taught me that miracles can happen and people are mostly kind. My family has been there for me every step of the way and strangers have allowed me to sleep in their home, for crying out loud. The list goes on. Whenever I encounter hardships, I am able to power through using my community, resilience, and faith. 

Frost Bank’s ‘Frost It Forward’ Campaign

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It’s always been my goal to give back to others, whether I’m at home or abroad. I wouldn’t be the person I am today if it weren’t for the kindness and generosity of those around me. This is why I think it’s so important to keep the cycle going and pay it forward. When Frost Bank asked me to participate in their ‘Frost It Forward’ campaign, it was a no brainer. 

According to Frost, optimism has the power to improve health, lower stress, improve relationships, extend life, and overall make us happier. I couldn’t agree more. 

As part of this campaign, I was provided a $100 gift card and my only task was to brighten a stranger’s day! The holidays are all about joy, but they can also be full of stress. The pressure to purchase gifts, prepare food, and attend parties can create a lot of financial stress for many of us. When I received my ‘Frost It Forward’ gift card, I set out to ease this burden for a stranger in need. 

I drove to the neighborhood grocery store and stood near the check-out counter to find someone who might be in need of assistance. After about 15 minutes, I spotted a family of 5 with a cart full of groceries. 

I walked over with a huge smile on my face and asked, “Would you mind if I paid for your groceries?” The mother was clearly confused. 

“Are you serious?” she asked.

I simply nodded my head.

Tears fell from her eyes. 

“I’ve heard about this kind of thing happening to people, but I never thought it would be me,” she said. 

“She really needed this,” her son said. 

All I could do was smile. I don’t know this woman’s story. Heck, I don’t even know her name. All I know is that she left the store feeling relieved. And who knows? Maybe she’ll try to pass that feeling on to a loved one or a stranger that she encounters. That’s the thing about kindness, though. It has the power to spread like wildfire if we allow it.  

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It brings me joy to know that I was able to brighten this woman and her family’s day. I feel inspired to continue spreading the love because we could all use more of it in our lives. To learn more about how you can get involved and spread optimism and generosity, please visit OptForOptimism.com

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For now, here are a few ideas on how you can Frost It Forward:

Pay for coffee for the person behind you in line.

Bag groceries for the person behind you in line at the grocery store.

Purchase a meal for a family out to dinner.

Bring flowers to someone in a nursing home and spend time with them.

Buy holiday gifts for a family in need.

Buy a coat for someone in need.

Invest in a YMCA membership for someone.

Happy New Year! Don’t forget to Frost It Forward!

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I Have a Confession: Solo Travel Scares Me. Here’s Why I Go Anyway… https://heyciara.com/issolotravelscary/ https://heyciara.com/issolotravelscary/#comments Fri, 26 Jul 2019 23:46:01 +0000 https://heyciara.com/issolotravelscary/ Yes, solo travel is scary. Here’s why I go anyway

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Don’t get it twisted.

I have doubts every time I take a solo trip

Every-time I’m in an Airbnb alone and I hear a thump

As I walk down the street with a man following closely behind behind

When I slide into the backseat of an cab- just a male driver and I

When I notice someone’s eyes lingering for a second too long

As I grip my valuables closely to my side on a crowded bus

And as I stare out the plane window during takeoff.

Despite how the photos turn out, it’s not always twirling in the streets,

sometimes it’s speed walking down a dimly lit alley while looking over my shoulder

Solo travel doesn’t necessarily get easier or less scary, at least not for me.

These thoughts still sit in the back of my mind because let’s face it, anything can happen anywhere at any time.

Even still, I refuse to let that stop me from living and seeing this great big world.

I choose to acknowledge the fear, be vigilant, and enjoy everything as much as possible.

I choose to go and keep going.

– phone notes from Guanajuato, Mexico ⁣

How I Stay Safe While Traveling Solo


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Why You Should Join A Group Tour | REI Greek Islands Under 35 Adventures https://heyciara.com/grouptravelrei/ https://heyciara.com/grouptravelrei/#comments Wed, 29 May 2019 19:44:55 +0000 https://heyciara.com/grouptravelrei/ I’ve just returned from an incredible group tour through the Greek Islands with REI and seven strangers. REI released a line of adventure trips that are more affordable for those of us who are 35 and under. Now, you may be wondering why a solo traveler would join a group tour full of strangers and […]

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I’ve just returned from an incredible group tour through the Greek Islands with REI and seven strangers. REI released a line of adventure trips that are more affordable for those of us who are 35 and under. Now, you may be wondering why a solo traveler would join a group tour full of strangers and a set itinerary. Sounds like a solo traveler’s nightmare, right? We’re independent traveler’s who don’t need no tour(or guide), right?

Well, here’s the thing: I’ve traveled the world alone for the past few years and it’s led to incredible experiences BUT I’m constantly trying to step outside of my comfort zone. Solo travel was a HUGE challenge for me when I first started but I’ve since become accustomed to it. Why not switch things up?

I first visited Greece in 2015 with a group of strangers and had a blast. Way back in 2015, travel was just a far-flung dream. I had no idea how to plan an extended trip in a foreign country and I def wasn’t ready to travel alone. So I signed up for a 35-day group trip through Europe with 30 strangers in hopes that it would help me ease my way into solo travel. I figured that I’d is able to travel solo without feeling like I was completely alone. I figured that I’d have a perfect balance of planned experiences and free time to explore on my own terms if I truly wanted to. That trip felt like REAL WORLD: EUROPE, but I left with life-long friends and endless memories.

I’ve since joined several group trips and I truly believe they’re the ultimate way to ease your way into solo travel without sacrificing your freedom. Despite the fact that I’ve been to Greece twice before, this trip led me to new adventures and discoveries. We visited the islands of Paros, Santorini, and Amorgos. We spent hours trekking across these islands, which allowed us to witness dramatic landscapes from a different perspective. We took cooking classes together and even learned a few traditional dances. We visited Greek churches and got lost inside traditional white villages. This trip made me fall even more in love with the country and its culture. It was made even more special by the group of strangers that I can now call friends. Here are some reasons you should consider giving group travel a try:

MEET NEW PEOPLE

I always feel nervous before group tours. There’s something scary about the thought of being stuck with strangers for an extended period of time. However, this could be the perfect solution for those of you who wish to travel without waiting around for others to get on board. You’ll have the support of a group while also having the freedom of a solo traveler if you truly wish. You’ll also have a solid group of like-minded people who share the same love for travel. In my opinion, there’s no better way to ease your way into solo travel. We ended up liking each other so much that we decided to extend our trip together! You never know!

GET LOCAL GUIDES

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There’s nothing like being led by a local. If you want to truly immerse yourself in the culture and discover more about a country, then a local guide can help you do just that. These guides know the country like the back of their hands and they’re able to answer every question you may have. They’ve led countless groups and lived in Greece all of their lives. When it comes to multi-day treks and outdoor activities, knowledgable guides become a necessary safety precaution – especially for women traveling alone. I would have been reluctant to hike some of those trails on my own. Our guides cooked, partied, and danced with us until the very last day.

TRAVEL STRESS-FREE

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Some of us love the trip planning process, while others prefer to show up and have a good time. Trip logistics can be a pain, especially in certain destinations. If you don’t know where to start or simply prefer the convenience of a curated trip, then a group tour is likely the best option. All you have to do is arrive and let the guides lead the way. They’re on-the-ground experts that have taken the time to create dynamic itineraries. I was able to discover the island of Amorgos, which I’d never heard of or seen before. There’s no way I would have visited on my own if I weren’t on this trip. I saw sites that I probably wouldn’t have been to by myself. Transportation, boat transfers, accommodation, and even most meals were included in the trip total. This can release the pressure that most of us feel to plan the ‘perfect’ trip!


Despite my initial reservations, I left this trip connected to myself and the world around me. I pushed myself both physically and socially. I got the chance to see Greece from a completely different perspective and I’d happily do it all over again. The daily hikes were exactly what my mind and body needed while the new friends I made were the icing on the cake. Head over to my Instagram to see behind the scenes of this trip and stay tuned for more blog posts about my time in Greece.

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22 Amazon Travel Essentials For Every Solo Traveler https://heyciara.com/amazon-packing-list-for-solo-female-travelers/ https://heyciara.com/amazon-packing-list-for-solo-female-travelers/#comments Thu, 11 Apr 2019 01:41:53 +0000 https://heyciara.com/amazon-packing-list-for-solo-female-travelers/ 22 Essentials I’d recommend to every solo female traveler for a safe journey and every adventure in between

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So, you’re going on a solo trip?

You probably have so many things running through your mind. At least, I know I did when I first started traveling solo.

“How will I secure my bag?”

“How will I fit everything inside of my bag?”

“How will I get photos of myself”

“How will I alert someone if I need help?”

My mind was full of worries when I departed for my first solo trip. While I’ve learned that there’s no guaranteed way to prevent bad things from happening, I’ve also learned that preparation can go a long way.

These days, I’m able to pack in a less than ten minutes(when my Uber is around the corner) and I know exactly what to bring to make my trip a breeze. These are my favorite Amazon essentials that I’d suggest to every solo female traveler for a safe journey and every adventure along the way:


1. Compression Packing Cubes

Compression cubes have changed the packing game. They’ll help you organise and compress your clothing on the road. You might be suprised to discover just how much you can fit into a single compression cube. I was skeptical in the beginning, but now I’m a believer.

It’s worth investing in high quality packing cubes that have a good zipper and water-resistant material.

2. TSA Security Lock

Whether you plan to check your bag or store it in a hostel, it’s crucial that you secure your baggage. A TSA Security lock will give you a peace of mind when your bag is out of site. If you plan to lock your luggage before flying, then it’s important to purchase a TSA approved lock incase they need to check your bags. If you plan to stay in a hostel, then you’ll need to bring your own lock for storage lockers inside of the room.

Keep in mind that a combination lock will likely be more convenient than a lock with a key. I’ve lost a few keys in my day.

3. Portable Charger

A portable charger is absolutely necessary when you’re on the road, especially as a solo traveler. Traveling solo without a phone could be a huge safety concern. After taking way too many photos and using travel apps to help guide you, you’ll find that your phone battery drains rather quickly. Be prepared with a portable charger to use on-the-go.

4. Filtered Water Bottle

Bottles of water can really add up, so I never leave home without my water-bottle. By using a water-bottle, I avoid overusing plastic and buying several bottles of water a day. Many hotels, hostels & rental homes have water for you to re-fill your bottle every morning. This also makes it easy to stay hydrated!

I personally love insulated water-bottles that keep my drink cold or warm! Alternatively, a filtered water bottle may be useful when traveling to developing countries.


5. Electrolyte Packets

Speaking of hydration, electrolyte powder is a total life-saver on the road. If you end up with an unfortunate case of food poisoning, then you’ll need electrolytes to bring you back to life. I’ve used hydration salts for food poisoning, extreme heat, dehydration, jet lag, fatigue, general sickness, and hangovers! I can’t necessarily count on someone else to take care of me while traveling solo, so these bring me back to life rather quickly. Gatorade/Powerade can be difficult to find in certain countries, so I prefer to bring packets. Pour these into your water-bottle and voila! They work like magic.

I swear by this particular brand and it helps that they supply clean water to a child in need with every purchase. Trust that you’ll be feeling brand new after you rehydrate with these.

6. Waterproof Phone Pouch

I’ve traveled all around the world with this $6 waterproof phone case and it has never let me down. This phone pouch is high quality and It’s the perfect alternative to an expensive underwater camera. In addition, I’m able to wear it around the neck during beach trips – which is perfect for those times when I have no-one to watch my belongings. #solotravelstruggle

7. Universal Travel Adapter

Don’t forget to pack a universal travel adapter if you plan to travel internationally!

RELATED: 20 + THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU EVER LEAVE THE COUNTRY

8. Menstrual Cup

It’s important to consider how you plan to handle your period while traveling. It can be difficult to find tampons in many developing countries and you may have a hard time communicating this with the language barrier if you’re overseas. A menstrual cup may be much more convenient and sustainable when you’re on the road for an extended period of time.

9. Pepper Spray

If you want to take extra safety measures while traveling solo in the U.S, then consider bringing mace. Keep in mind that pepper spray must be packed into your checked bag and it cannot be taken in your carry-on.

Pepper spray is illegal in many countries outside of the US, so be sure to do your research before flying!

RELATED: HOW TO STAY SAFE AS A SOLO FEMALE TRAVELER

10. Personal Alarm

If you don’t feel comfortable traveling with pepper spray, then a personal alarm is a great alternative. If an attacker approaches you, then a personal alarm may deter them from acting further and alert by-standers. This is unlikely to happen, but it’s best to prepare for any outcome. This is perfectly legal

11. Carry-On Bag

It may seem impossible, but #teamcarryon is the way to go as a solo traveler. There’s nobody to help you carry your bags or watch your bags while run to the bathroom, so I recommend packing as light as possible. I’ve made the mistake( still do) of overpacking, and trust me – it’s no fun.

When you pack in a carry-on, you’ll save money and avoid long baggage claim lines. Whether you decide to bring a backpack or suitcase, packing light will make things alot easier.  http://fbuy.me/kWrR1

12. Micro-Fiber Travel Towel

Most hostels require you to bring your own towel. Regular towels can be bulky and they take way too long to dry, so a light weight, quick-drying towel will be useful. Think about those beach days too!

RELATED: WHAT A HOSTEL IS REALLY LIKE

13. Tripod

When it comes to taking photos as a solo traveler, the struggle is REAL! If you’re not a fan of selfies, then it may be worth buying a tripod! You’ll be able to take photos without depending on a stranger’s help. Be sure to purchase a sturdy tripod, arrive as early as possible to avoid awkward stares/crowds, and keep an eye on your gear to prevent theft. Always be aware of your surroundings while shooting with a tripod to remain safe.

  • Set a Timer – Use the timer function so that you have time to set up your shot & pose before pressing the shutter.

  • Buy a remote Use a remote to control the shutter without having to run back and forth. Hide the timer by putting your hand behind your hat or body using a clever pose.

  • Use burst mode – Burst mode will help you capture many photos in a short amount of time. Switch up your poses and WORK IT!

RELATED: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO TAKING PHOTOS AS A SOLO TRAVELER

14. Travel Journal

My travel journal keeps me sane. You’ll have some incredible experiences on the road, but your memories will fade quicker than you think. When you travel solo, you don’t have a travel buddy who that will always be there to say ‘remember that one time in *insert location* when…?’. A journal can help you keep track of reflections, goals, encounters, pictures, train tickets, ideas, feelings, and more.

15. Money Belt

Want to avoid pick-pockets? A money belt will keep your money and travel documents hidden. You can easily keep your money, passport cards, IDs, and keys close under your clothing as you explore a new destination. This is especially useful in big cities, large crowds, and public transportation! Look out for features like RFID blocking protection & water resistant fabric for rainy days.

The best thing about this specific money belt by Peak? It comes with $250 theft insurance for reimbursement incase your valuables are stolen, along with a lifetime guarantee. I haven’t seen any other brand offer this. Alternatively, they sell a neck wallet which includes $250 theft insurance as well.

16. Travel Wallet

If money belts aren’t your thing, then a simple travel wallet will do the trick. You can easily organize your travel documents as you go through airport security or customs.

Bonus tip: Separate your cards and limit the cash you carry on a daily basis!

17. Mini First Aid Kit

You’ve gotta look out for yourself whenever you travel solo. A mini-first aid kit can be useful for cuts, scrapes, aches, burns, colds, and much more. You can either purchase a pre-made packet or create your own DIY first aid kit full of your favorite products. Either way, I wouldn’t recommend traveling solo without one.

18. Neck Pillow

I don’t fly without this neck pillow because it provides incredible all-around neck support. It’s a life-saver during long flights or bus rides!

You receive a lifetime warranty with this specific pillow – they’ll even replace it if it’s lost or stolen.

19. Anti-Theft Daypack

A day-pack is absolutely essential for any traveler. You’ll use a day-pack for day trips, excursions, and any other time spent outside of your hotel room. You can store your camera, journal, travel documents, and other day-to-day essentials inside while you’re on the go. Aim for an anti-theft bag to prevent pick-pockets and bag-cutters!

20. Wrinkle Releaser

Clothes wrinkle easily when they’re stuffed in a suitcase and you may not have access to an iron, especially if you’re staying in a hostel. This wrinkle releaser is my go-to product for dresses and shirts. I’m constantly impressed by how well this works. It won’t replace an iron, but it definitely gets the job done if you don’t have one!

It’s also an odor eliminator and fabric refresher – so it’s perfect for hikes or busy trips where you may not have time to wash often.

21. Door stopper

A door stop security alarm would be especially useful if you plan to stay in hotel rooms or rental homes alone. This serves as an extra level of security that will alert you and potentially scare away any intruders. You can never be too safe.

22. Multi-Purpose Cleaner

My best-friend brought this organic multi-purpose cleaner on our Iceland road-trip and I thought it was genius! We were able to use it on our bodies, faces, hair, dishes, and even clothes. Ever since then, I can’t travel without it. It’s perfect for solo travelers with limited luggage space.


I hope this was helpful to you! As always, I encourage reading reviews, comparing products, checking warranties/return policies and deciding which products/brands work best for you! Enjoy and stay safe on your solo trip!

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When Strangers From The Internet Make Magic | A VIDEO https://heyciara.com/meetpeopletravelsolo/ https://heyciara.com/meetpeopletravelsolo/#comments Mon, 07 Jan 2019 06:17:59 +0000 https://heyciara.com/meetpeopletravelsolo/ This is what happens when you book a last-minute flight to London and meet up with strangers from the internet

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Can we talk about that time I booked the cheapest flight out of Iceland?

I had two weeks left in Europe and I wanted to take full advantage.

I jumped on Skyscanner as I lay in my Airbnb and found a killer flight deal to London. I thought, “Why not?” and pressed ‘Book’.

I arrived in London the following morning and I quickly discovered that I knew a ton of travel creatives from the city. I was solo, but before I knew it, I had a full itinerary with Londoners who wanted to show me around.

On my first night, I reached out to Cle, whom I’ve been following on Instagram for years. We immediately made plans to go salsa dancing with his sister Camille , who I’ve also connected with through the app.

Before we went dancing, we decided to pre-game at their friend and co-creator, Barnie’s apartment. We’ve been following each-other on Instagram for years but it felt amazing to connect with like-minded people who have a similar vision of the world. We’d been watching each-other’s lives through a small screen and we finally had the chance to create real connection. We discussed our travels, upcoming projects, and more. It didn’t take long before Cle suggested that we create something while I was in town. And of course, I was down.

Nearly a week and several encounters later, we met up to create a video. We had no plans or scripts and somehow, that made the experience so much more exciting. I was pushed outside of my comfort zone, but it felt good. In fact, this was one of the best nights of my year. It was full of love, laughter, connection, youth, and fun. Pure fun. We didn’t set out to create a viral video or a story that would ‘perform well’. We simply created to create, and I loved it.

At one point, we were sitting at a pizza shop discussing our ‘worst qualities’. How’s that for getting to know each other? Here’s a group of strangers who met on the internet, running around London and sharing stories of life and love. I was living that moment and I didn’t want the night to end.

Here’s to more collaboration and more connection in 2019.


This video features Cle, founder of the Wind Collective and it was filmed by Barnabus Kelemen.

Be sure to follow Wind Collective on Instagram.

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The Ultimate Guide To Taking Beautiful Photos While Traveling Solo https://heyciara.com/beautifulphotostravelingsologuide/ https://heyciara.com/beautifulphotostravelingsologuide/#comments Wed, 31 Oct 2018 21:11:43 +0000 https://heyciara.com/beautifulphotostravelingsologuide/ How To Get Beautiful Photos While Traveling Solo

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Advice, tips, tricks, and gear for taking beautiful photos while you’re traveling solo

“Who takes your pictures if you’re traveling alone?”

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As a solo traveler, this is the question that I receive the most by far.

It’s easy to look at my Instagram and think I must have a photographer following me around from one exotic locale to another. It’s also easy to assume that I have an Instagram hubby/bff/sugar daddy hiding somewhere behind the scenes and lens, but this couldn’t be further from the truth.

As a travel blogger, sometimes I seriously wish that I had a photographer/videographer/assistant with me but ain’t nobody got $$ for that(yet). So for now, I work with what I’ve got – me, myself, and I.

I’ve previously mentioned one of the worst parts of solo travel is being stuck with selfies. This may sound vain or even narcissistic, but there’s no shame in wanting a beautiful memory of your trip.

In fact, solo travel is often a monumental experience for many. This may be your first trip alone, your first trip after a divorce, your first international trip, a birthday trip, or a trip that you’ve spent years saving up for. You may want to share these photos with friends/family who are unable to travel or your grandkids years down the road.

It’s one thing to have a mediocre landscape photo that can be found on Google, but it’s another thing to have a personalized photo of YOUR trip. With all of this in mind, I can definitely understand the desire to have gorgeous photos that encapsulate your experience – especially since you’re the only person who will be re-living it.

I personally enjoy telling a story through photography. It’s one of my favorite things to do while traveling solo, but sometimes the struggle is REAL. Tripods can be a major hassle and what if a stranger runs off with your brand new camera? Fortunately, I’ve learned a thing or two about preparing, capturing, and editing photos while traveling alone. Here are my best tips for taking beautiful photos while you travel solo:

TIPS TO CAPTURE PHOTOS AS A SOLO TRAVELER

Before You Go

Seek Inspiration

It helps to know what kind of pictures you want to take before you get to your destination. Spend time looking at photo inspiration on Pinterest or Instagram ahead of time. I personally use the ‘save’ and ‘location’ features on Instagram to search for unique landscapes to not only capture but visit when I’m traveling.

Follow my Instagram and Pinterest for some travel photography inspiration!

I discovered this low-key cenote in Mexico while scrolling through Instagram one day. This particular photo was taken by travelers who were there to have fun just like me! This photo took less than five minutes, but I stayed in this Cenote for aroun…

I discovered this low-key cenote in Mexico while scrolling through Instagram one day. This particular photo was taken by travelers who were there to have fun just like me! This photo took less than five minutes, but I stayed in this Cenote for around two hours.

Rise Early

If you want to have famous sights to yourself and take pictures before the crowds arrive, then it’s important to start early. You might lose a bit of sleep, but you’ll thank yourself later.

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Get The Right Photography Gear

There’s no need to spend a fortune on photography gear, but you should be prepared before you go. If you’re not satisfied with your current camera, then do the proper research to upgrade ahead of time. There’s nothing like arriving in a destination and wishing you would have invested in a better lens, camera, or photo accessory. Consider whether you’d like to bring a tripod to set up solo shots, a go-pro to capture action shots, a stabilizer to record videos, or a new camera for higher quality photos. Scroll to the bottom(or click the links) to see which gear I use.

IMPORTANT TIPS REGARDING GEAR:

  • If you choose to invest in photography gear, it’s crucial that you purchase travel insurance. I’ve lost a phone, had another phone stolen, and also broke my camera after it fell off the tripod. ANYTHING could happen, so it’s important to buy travel insurance that will cover the cost of your valuables.

  • Always pack/bring all of your valuables in your carry-on to avoid damage or theft.

This photo was taken in Burano, Italy using an iPhone. I met a solo traveler on the bus ride there and we spent the entire day together.

This photo was taken in Burano, Italy using an iPhone. I met a solo traveler on the bus ride there and we spent the entire day together.

Perfect Your Poses

You don’t have an Insta hubby or bff to re-take photos of you when you’re traveling solo, so it’s best to have some go-to poses and know your angles. This is especially important if you aren’t used to being in front of the camera. You’re unlikely to even attempt taking photos if you feel awkward or uncomfortable, so start practicing ASAP. Have a few go to poses in your pocket and know which sides/angles makes you look & feel your best in photos. When you feel more confident taking photos, you’re able to get the job done much quicker and move on to living out your adventures.

Most would probably assume I spend hours taking photos, but nope – ain’t nobody got time for that! I’ve simply had alot of practice taking photos and being in front of the camera. I know exactly what shots I want ahead of time and I have go-to poses that allow me to take most of my photos very quickly. Like anything else, practice makes perfect. While it may take hours or hundreds of shots for someone who is less experienced in this area, I can usually get my desired outcome within a few minutes or shots. Everyone is different, so experiment and see what works best for you! Aside from smiling/laughing,

Here are my go to poses:

Glancing To The Right/Using My Right Side Profile – Why? This is my “good side”. I can admit that I don’t always like my smile in photos, so glancing to the right is my go-to. Whether smiling or not, looking to the right is my favorite “candid” photo op. This also brings attention to the distance, landscape, or whichever element I may be looking at. You can learn your ‘good side’ by taking selfies and seeing which angles work best for you.

Facing Away From The Camera/Back Of The Head Shot – Once again, let’s be real! We don’t always look our best while traveling, so facing away from the camera is a great way for you to be the subject of the frame – even if you aren’t very comfortable in front of the camera yet. The ‘back of the head shot’ is definitely overdone in travel photography, but it does the trick – especially on your worst travel days. Sunglasses work wonders too!

Walking Away Or Towards The Camera – If you’d like to add an element of movement to your photo, then try walking towards or away from the camera(like shown below). It’s also easy to walk away from the frame and create a “candid” shot using this pose. You can walk away and look back or do slight turn to play with movement.

Play With The Framing – Observe your surroundings and find what aspects of that destination stick out to you. Do you see a bridge, an archway, a graffiti wall, an ornate door? Use these elements to your advantage! Pose directly against the door, walk across the bridge, stand under the archway, etc. Train yourself to notice these details!

Here I am facing and walking away from the photo. My Airbnb host took this!

Here I am facing and walking away from the photo. My Airbnb host took this!

Here I am using my right side profile. My Airbnb host also took this.

Here I am using my right side profile. My Airbnb host also took this.

Dress The Part

There’s no need to switch up your style or hike up a mountain in a dress, but it’s important to wear something you feel good in. It doesn’t have to be fancy or out of the ordinary, but you’ll certainly feel more comfortable in front of the camera if you wear clothes that you actually like. In my opinion, casual dresses are far more comfortable than jeans/shorts so they’re always a great option. It doesn’t take any additional effort to throw something on that both looks good and feels good to you!

How to capture photos as a Solo Traveler

Ask A Stranger

In my opinion, this is the easiest and quickest way to get photos of yourself while traveling solo. There will be plenty of other tourists around and most wouldn’t mind helping you with a photo for a few seconds. If you offer to take photos of another solo traveler or couple, I can guarantee they’ll be happy to return the favor. Now, you may be wondering how to actually get strangers to take GOOD photos of you. Here are a few tips:

  • Know Basic Photography – First and foremost, you need to know exactly what you want the photo to look like. This stranger didn’t sign up to be your personal photographer nor are they going to take a hundred photos of you until you get the perfect shot, so it’s up to you to know what you want. It’s your job to frame the photo, know the angle, and have some go-to poses before you ever hand them the camera. This will save you alot time and disappointment. When you know what you want, they’re more likely to capture the image you desire and you’re more likely to be satisfied with the outcome. You cannot expect a stranger or even a friend to know the basics of photography, so it’s completely up to you.

    You should know exactly where you want them to stand, where you will stand, how you will pose, your desired angle, and what you want to be in the frame. Sounds intense, but it’s the best strategy. This way, all they need to do is press the button. Most of my photos are taken in less than five minutes with less than five shots because I know exactly what I want going into the situation. I’m able to get a few photos then move onto enjoying myself.

  • Ask the Right Stranger – It’s important to ask the right stranger to take your pictures while traveling solo. You wouldn’t want someone to run off with your camera, so choose wisely!

    • Search for the person holding a professional camera. They likely have some photography experience. They’re also less likely to steal your camera gear because they have their own.

    • Ask the millennial girl who looks like she has an Instagram

    • Help the solo traveler who is also struggling with her selfie stick – its a win win for both of you!

    • Offer to help a couple so that they can walk away with a memorable photo together. They’ll help you out in return!

    • Ask other tourists/travelers who are clearly taking photos and sightseeing as well. In general, they’re just trying to enjoy their vacation like you so there’s less chance of theft.

    You can even offer to take a photo of them then reference their photo as an example of how you’d like them to take your photo. You’ll both walk away with beautiful photos to remember your trip. Plus, who knows? You could walk away with a new friend – I have!

Be sure to ask nicely and remember that this method can be a hit or miss. I have plenty of photo fails that were taken by strangers, but it’s just the nature of solo travel.

How To Approach The Stranger

I always say, “Excuse me, would you mind taking a photo?” or I offer by saying “Would you like some help?”. They’re usually ecstatic and they offer to return the favor. To avoid any awkwardness, I usually say “Would you mind taking a several?”, then I stand and hold the camera where I’d like them to stand before pointing to say “I’m going to stand just right there”. This helps tremendously! In addition, it’s a great way to start a conversation and make friends.

Believe it or not, a solo female traveler approached me to take a photo of her in Santorini. We were able to help each other out and we really clicked. This is one of the photos she took(with an iPhone) and it’s one of my favorites. We ended up eati…

Believe it or not, a solo female traveler approached me to take a photo of her in Santorini. We were able to help each other out and we really clicked. This is one of the photos she took(with an iPhone) and it’s one of my favorites. We ended up eating dinner together and she met up with me in San Francisco a year later so that we could reunite.

Meet People And Make Friends

Solo travel doesn’t necessarily mean being alone. I constantly meet people while traveling solo and consequently, we end up hanging out together. When you make friends, you can easily take photos of each other and ask them to capture a few photos while you hang out. I’ve been able to walk away from trips with lifelong friends and some pretty incredible photos too!

You can meet people on day trips, in restaurants, in hostels, and many other places that you’d never expect.

RELATED: 13 SIMPLE WAYS TO MEET PEOPLE WHILE TRAVELING SOLO

This photo was taken by a solo traveler I met in Bali. We met in Ubud and ended up traveling together for seven days because we clicked!

This photo was taken by a solo traveler I met in Bali. We met in Ubud and ended up traveling together for seven days because we clicked!

Join a Tour, Specifically A Photo Tour

Day tours and trips are the perfect way to go sightseeing, meet like-minded people, and walk away with photos. Usually there will be other solo travelers and couples, so you can help each other out by taking a few photos. You can even ask your tour guide to help you out!

You can also join photography tours to learn some basic skills and meet other travelers who are interested in photography. Search for photo walks, classes, and tours on Airbnb Experiences.

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Look into this Instagram Wall Crawl in Los Angeles, this street photography class in Cuba, or this culture walk in Morocco.

This photo was taken by my Airbnb host in Cuba. She was an angel.

This photo was taken by my Airbnb host in Cuba. She was an angel.

Hire A Professional Photographer

If you want some high quality photos to remember your experience by, then consider hiring a professional photographer in your destination.

Check out Airbnb Experiences to search for photographers and personal photography sessions based on location.

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Check out this personal photography session in Morocco, this Eiffel tower photo session in Paris, or this personal photo shoot in New York City.

Alternatively, check out Flytographer to book a photographer around the world. Get $25 off a session with code: CIARAJOHNSON

OR

Visit Shoot My Travel too book a local photographer in your destination.

I’ve personally never hired one, but a photographer approached me at a cafe in Bali and asked if she could take photos of me!

I’ve personally never hired one, but a photographer approached me at a cafe in Bali and asked if she could take photos of me!

Use A Tripod

I’m not the biggest fan of using a tripod, but many solo travelers swear by it. Be sure to purchase a sturdy tripod, arrive as early as possible to avoid awkward stares/crowds, and keep an eye on your gear to prevent theft. Always be aware of your surroundings while shooting with a tripod to remain safe.

  • Set a Timer – Use the timer function so that you have time to set up your shot & pose before pressing the shutter.

  • Buy a remote Use a remote to control the shutter without having to run back and forth. Hide the timer by putting your hand behind your hat or body using a clever pose.

  • Use burst mode – Burst mode will help you capture many photos in a short amount of time. Switch up your poses and WORK IT!

Avoid shooting in extreme weather conditions. A windy day in Dubrovnik, Croatia led to a broken camera when it fell off my tripod. This may or may not be part of the reason I have something against tripods.

This photo was taken with a tripod in Chefchaoen, Morocco.

This photo was taken with a tripod in Chefchaoen, Morocco.

Hire A Guide

If you hire a tour guide or translator, you can easily ask them to snap a few pictures as you explore the city. I’ve used this tactic and tipped extra to express my gratitude!

On my final day in Cuba, a local boy asked if he could take me on a tour of Havana - he wanted to earn some extra money! I initially declined, then thought, “why not?”. I learned so much about Cuba during our city walk and he snapped this photo of m…

On my final day in Cuba, a local boy asked if he could take me on a tour of Havana – he wanted to earn some extra money! I initially declined, then thought, “why not?”. I learned so much about Cuba during our city walk and he snapped this photo of me!

Ask An Employee

It’s normal for couples and families to ask employees to help out with a few photos at birthday dinners or dates, so why not do the same? Be sure to ask nicely and make sure they aren’t busy!

This photo was taken by a hotel employee in Mexico city. I knew exactly where i would sit and what angle I wanted, so she took this photo within two attempts.

This photo was taken by a hotel employee in Mexico city. I knew exactly where i would sit and what angle I wanted, so she took this photo within two attempts.

The owner of this rug store in Marrakesh, Morocco actually offered to take this photo of me. I was really grateful!

The owner of this rug store in Marrakesh, Morocco actually offered to take this photo of me. I was really grateful!

Prop Your Camera Up

You can easily use a ledge to prop your camera up for a quick photo. Look around and see where you can place your camera . This works wonders if you don’t have a tripod!

I simply sat my camera on a nearby ledge and used the camera timer for this photo in Mexico City.

I simply sat my camera on a nearby ledge and used the camera timer for this photo in Mexico City.

Bring A Go-Pro

Go-pro cameras are great for capturing action shots, underwater selfies, and wide-angle shots. They’re lightweight, durable, and rather discrete – which may be perfect for solo travelers.

This five dollar waterproof phone case is a great alternative if you don’t want to drop hundreds on a Go Pro! I’ve used it around the world.

This photo was taken with a go-pro at Krka National Park in Croatia

This photo was taken with a go-pro at Krka National Park in Croatia

Bring A Compact Camera

When I had a bulky DSLR, I hardly used my camera. It was way too bulky and distracting, especially while walking around a city alone. These days, I use a Sony a6000 which has the power of a DSLR at nearly half the size. I can throw my camera into my backpack and sometimes even my purse. It’s much more convenient and lightweight, which encourages me to use my camera more.

You can even use your phone camera to get some shots if you’re not ready to invest in a different or more expensive camera. You’d be surprised how well the iPhone works if you understand some basic photography tips.

This photo was taken with an iPhone 6.

This photo was taken with an iPhone 6.

Learn Basic Photography

Your photographs will be infinitely better if you learn some basic photography tips before you go. You don’t need an expensive camera to capture great photos. Start with your phone camera and practice framing shots! You don’t have to be a professional, but these fundamental tips will help you learn how to capture decent photos while traveling solo.

Why should you learn basic photography skills?

  • As a solo traveler, this is one of the best ways to preserve your memories and share your experiences abroad.

  • You’ll be able to capture better photos of your family, life, and travels. You’ll learn how to take better photos of yourself and easily show others how to do the same. Any stranger or friend can take a decent photo of you when you know how to frame the photo for them.

  • You’ll learn how to truly appreciate the world around you and share your vision of it.

  • It’s a creative hobby that you can use at home or abroad. It will also keep you busy as a solo traveler.

  • It’s a great way to practice mindfulness. You’ll begin to see details that others might to overlook.

Practice

Start taking photos before you travel. Walk around a different part of town and capture buildings or structures that stick out to you. Once you get to your destination, spend time taking photos of markets, daily life, or anything else that catches your eye. As soon as I check into a hotel, I put my bags down and grab my camera to explore the city. Have fun with it and your photography skills are sure to improve with time.

Learn About Lighting

  • Use Natural Lighting for the best photos

  • Avoid shooting at midday with direct sunlight, which will create harsh shadows and lines

  • Be sure that sun isn’t behind you/your subject’s back

  • Shoot at golden hour, particularly just after sunrise or just before sunset

Learn About Exposure, Composition, And Perspective

  • You can manually adjust the exposure if your photo is too dark or light

  • Adjust your perspective to play around with angles and depth. Squat down, step back, move closer, hover above, angle the camera differently, and reposition yourself until you get your desired outcome.

  • Practice composing your shots using the rule of 1/3. You can do more research on this rule and use the built in grid on your phone/camera.

Quality Over Quantity

Instead of taking pictures of everything you see, slow down and focus on getting a quality shot. Take your time and wait for that person to move out of the frame. Grab that piece of trash off of the ground and observe what’s happening in the background. Look for symmetry and pay attention to detail. Ultimately, you’ll be happier with your shots.

This photo was captured in Morocco with less than three attempts. I knew exactly where I would stand and what pose I would do before asking another traveler to take the shot for me. I then returned the favor by capturing a photo of her and her frien…

This photo was captured in Morocco with less than three attempts. I knew exactly where I would stand and what pose I would do before asking another traveler to take the shot for me. I then returned the favor by capturing a photo of her and her friend.

How I Edit my Photos

Most cameras aren’t capable of capturing the vivid colors you may see in real life, so editing can really bring your photos to life. Editing can also help to convey a specific mood and personalize your photos however you may see fit. Just be careful not to overdo it!

I avoid Instagram and phone filters like the plague, because they’re extremely limiting. I use the Lightroom Mobile app to adjust specific elements of the photo based on my preferences. It’s completely free to download and you can adjust everything from the ‘exposure’ to the ‘clarity’ of the photo. You can literally transform your photos using the features in this app. Check out the example below:

Before editing - taken on a glacier tour in Iceland

Before editing – taken on a glacier tour in Iceland

After editing

After editing

This photo was taken in a glacier cave in Iceland and the reality is that a photo could never do this place justice. I was brought to tears inside of this cave because it was just THAT unbelievable. The original/unedited photo is dull and it doesn’t truly reflect the shadows and colors inside of the cave – it was pitch black. With a few tweaks, I was able to darken the shadows, increase the vibrancy, reduce the exposure, and increase the clarity.

If you prefer to edit quickly and save time altogether, then you can purchase presets to use in Light room mobile or check out these free apps with built-in filters:

  • Snapseed

  • VSCO

  • Huji

  • A Color Story

BACKUP YOUR PHOTOS

Last year, I lost thousands of photos after misplacing my phone in Guatemala. That’s two months of travel photos that I’ll never be able to get back. I’ve since learned my lesson and I can’t stress how important it is to backup your photos while traveling.

  • Use Google Photos – Google applications are top notch. This is a free app that will automatically backup your photos with wi/fi and/or data. The features in this app are incredible. You can type anything into the search bar like ‘red car’ or ‘passport’ and it will pull up the photo, which is way more convenient than scrolling through thousands of photos. You can edit the photos yourself or the ‘assistant’ feature will edit the photos for you. After the photos have uploaded, you can access them from any computer or phone with your login info. This is especially handy if you lose or break your phone like I have in the past.

  • Upload to your laptop or tablet – Back up your photos to a tablet or laptop as soon as possible.

  • Use a hard drive – If you have a high volume of photos, then its best to back up your photos on a hard drive during your travels.

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How to Take Photos without Running Your Trip

Contrary to popular belief, it’s definitely possible to take photos AND enjoy your trip. Balance is key. It can be easy to get caught up in documenting the moment, but I’m here to tell you that the best travel experiences can’t be captured. The meaningful conversations, late nights out, and people you meet along the way will mean way more to you than any photo ever will. I can imagine that you invested time and money into this trip, so do you really want to obsess over photos the whole time? At the end of the day, your photos should be a byproduct of an incredible trip – not the sole purpose or motive.

  • Set Intentions – It’s so important to think about your motives. Are you on this trip to truly witness breathtaking landscapes and improve your photography or do you want validation through social media? If you’re seeking validation, then ask yourself why. Define or set a goal for your trip and refer back to it whenever you find yourself straying away. Check yo’ self, if necessary.

  • Set Limits – If you go to the beach, spend 10-15 minutes taking photos and then go for a swim. Rise early to take photos and then spend the rest of the day exploring. Photos don’t need to take over your entire day or experience. Set aside a specific time to take photos and then focus on having fun.

  • Avoid posting in real time – As a solo traveler, I never post in real time – for safety reasons and my personal enjoyment. Editing and posting on social media can completely distract you from the moment. I usually edit and post once I’m back in the hotel room relaxing or winding down after a long day. Put your phone on airplane mode if that helps!

  • Focus on the process, not the outcome – Photography can actually take you deeper into the moment if you’re truly enjoying yourself. Focus on having fun, instead of worrying about Instagram or how many likes you’ll get. There’s no way you can regret taking photos if you’re truly having a good time. At the end of the day, there’s no reason to let pictures(or the lack thereof) ruin your trip.

  • Do it for yourself – Solo travel is extremely personal. It’s important to remember that you’re doing this for you and nobody else. Remember that your personal satisfaction is priority and you don’t need photos to prove anything. Do whatever makes YOU happy and forget what others think! It would suck to have thousands of ‘epic’ photos for everyone else to see, yet zero memories that truly make you feel good about your trip.

This photo was taken in Iceland. I was told there was a waterfall canyon located behind a farm. I was simply searching for this hidden waterfall to stray away from the crowds. As a result, I stumbled upon a breathtaking sight. Getting a photo was on…

This photo was taken in Iceland. I was told there was a waterfall canyon located behind a farm. I was simply searching for this hidden waterfall to stray away from the crowds. As a result, I stumbled upon a breathtaking sight. Getting a photo was only a bonus, but I was happy enough to soak it all in. I like the photo but this is something that must be experienced in real life.

I’ve traveled to Ecuador, Brazil, Paris, and London in the past two months alone – but I barely have any photos to prove it. I’ve left many destinations without a single photo of myself and I’m completely fine with that. It’s not the end of the world. The memories I have from these trips far outweigh any pictures I could ever take. Take your pictures, but don’t lose sight of why you’re traveling in the first place!


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20 Tips To Master The Art Of Eating Alone | As Told By A Solo Traveler https://heyciara.com/eatingtalonesolotravel/ https://heyciara.com/eatingtalonesolotravel/#comments Mon, 22 Oct 2018 08:43:11 +0000 https://heyciara.com/eatingtalonesolotravel/ Eating alone often elicits the same bewildered response as traveling solo. Here are 20 + tips To master eating alone, especially as a solo traveler!

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Here are 20 + tips To master eating alone, especially as a solo traveler!

Eating alone often elicits the same bewildered response as traveling solo.

“Isn’t it lonely? boring? EMBARRASSING?”

“Eating…alone? That’s…erm….interesting.”

“Just one?”

“I could NEVER!!!!”

“Are your friends busy? They must be busy.

Right. Because who in their right mind would EVER choose to eat alone? After all, eating is a shared experience…no, a shared ritual in most corners of the world. Meals were made to be enjoyed amongst family, conversations, and laughter. So what sense would it make to eat alone, especially in public?

Admittedly, I’ve lost count of how many restaurants I’ve dined in alone. I’ve sat on romantic balconies in the highlands of Guatemala and French brasseries in central Paris…alone. Just me. Table for one. Despite the many meals I’ve enjoyed alone, I still get a twinge of anxiety every time I enter a crowded restaurant one deep. A string of fearful thoughts flood through my mind.

“I SWEAR I HAVE FRIENDS!”

“Here come the stares.”

“Should I just ,ummm…walk back outside?”

“Maybe room service will be better, easier, less awkward.”

But those fears quickly subside, because I’ll be damned if I miss out on a good meal because of what other people think of me. I actually like eating alone, traveling alone, and simply being alone. The truth is that there’s nothing weird about it. While it may be different than eating with others, it’s certainly not worse. In many ways, it can be better.

So, I’ve learned to look forward to eating alone. It’s a form of self-care and a gift to myself. It’s my time to unwind and reflect. It’s an opportunity to savor every bite of my food without distraction. It’s truly an art.

Here are my biggest tips to master the art of eating alone if you’re nervous about giving it a try:

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Tips To Enjoy Eating Alone:

People Watch

This is the ultimate time to people watch. If you’re in Paris, sit outside of a cafe and watch chic Parisians stroll by. If you’re in Morocco, watch local families interact between meals. You can learn so much about a culture by simply sitting and observing the people. Be careful not to stare, while admiring the life that’s happening all around you. Request a seat in the back of the restaurant or against a wall, if you don’t feel comfortable being watched by others.

Journal

This is prime time for you to catch up on your travel journal. I’ve sat in many restaurants journaling my heart away. This will help you keep your mind off of the thought that people might be staring at you. Write about how you’re feeling, lessons you’ve learned, what you did, your goals, or whatever you desire.

Finish That Book

It might seem unusual to pull out a book at the dinner table, but it’s the perfect way to distract yourself from what others may be thinking. It’s also the best time for you to start or finish any books that you’ve been reading. All of your worries about dining solo will subside once you really get into the book.

Catch Up With Friends & Family

It’s perfectly acceptable to contact family and friends if you feel more comfortable doing so. You hardly get any down time when you’re traveling, so this is the perfect time to catch up with them! Call your parents or respond to those unanswered texts. Tell them about your meal, your day, or even how nervous yet proud you are to be eating alone.

Sit At The Bar

The restaurant bar is one of the best places to meet other people, if that’s what you’re looking for. By sitting at the bar, you also avoid being seated in the middle of the restaurant on display. You can strike up a conversation with the bar tender or you can just sip on your margarita in silence. You might even be able to focus on the TV if there is one. For me, sitting at the bar has led to everything from new travel partners to free drinks!

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TREAT YO’ SELF

Dining alone can be a radical form of self care if you embrace it. Instead of waiting for someone to take you out, do it yourself. It may seem counterproductive at first, but there’s no shame in treating yourself to a delicious meal. Treat yo’ self to an appetizer AND a desert!

Savor the moment

Honestly, people are a distraction – a good one, but a distraction nonetheless. From personal experience, my food is usually cold by the time I finish talking to my friend over a meal. This is an opportunity to truly savor the moment and the food you’re eating. This is a way for you to eat mindfully and truly enjoy the food restaurant experience from start to finish.

Dress the Part

No need to put on your Sunday’s best, but we all naturally feel good when we look good – whatever that may mean to you. There’s nothing worse than feeling underdressed and it’s ten times worse when you’re alone. Throw on something that makes you feel good about yourself. Search Instagram or Google Maps restaurant photos for common outfits in the restaurant you plan to visit.

Choose A Seat Facing Away From The Crowd

Sure, people may stare, but you’ll never know if you can’t see them.

Stop Worrying About What Other People Think

I know how awkward it can feel when others might be staring at you or making odd faces, but it’s crucial that you ignore them. “Whatever people think of you is none of your business.” People might snicker or stare for a few moments, then they’ll get back to eating their meals. Think about it this way – you’ll never see these strangers again, so why concern yourself with what they think of you? DO YOU, BOO! Savor that croissant, Revel in every drop of that red wine. Relax and enjoy the moment!

Order Early And Ask For The Bill Early

To avoid twiddling your thumbs as you wait for the server, preview the menu online(especially helpful with language barriers – use google translate) before hand so that you can order once the server comes. Ask for the bill before you finish eating to avoid waiting for the check.

ORDER THE WINE!

If a glass of wine or beer will ease your nerves, then order one as soon as you plop down.

Be Grateful

Let me tell you, there have been plenty of times when I looked around the restaurant and thanked GOD that I wasn’t sitting at some of the tables I saw. There’s always the girl who’s pissed at her boyfriend, the friends that haven’t spoken to each-other the whole time, the family with their heads buried in cell phones, etc. Remember that eating alone is alot better than suffering through a meal with terrible company.

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Tips For Choosing A Restaurant:

The biggest benefit of dining alone is a shorter wait time. As a party of one, you’ll spend less time waiting and more time eating. You’re also more likely to score tables without a reservation. Here are a few tips for choosing a restaurant when you dine solo:

Choose A Restaurant Before You Go

If you’re already nervous, the last thing you want to do is wander around aimlessly looking for a suitable restaurant. Do some research beforehand to ease the pressure in real time. Use Google maps to look at pictures of the restaurant and review opening times. You can also click on ‘About’ in Google Maps to see the atmosphere(i.e. casual, fancy, etc) and if it’s popular for ‘solo dining’!

Use Google

Search for ‘The best restaurants in ‘X location’ for dining solo. For example, Here’s a list of the best restaurants for dining solo in NYC.

Start With Breakfast Or Lunch

Waltzing into a buzzing restaurant at happy hour is hella intimidating. Start small and go for lunch or breakfast. The restaurant will be less crowded, so that means less eyes on you.

Avoid Peak Dining Times

In general, it’s best to avoid peak dining teams in the beginning. You’re unlikely to see couples on dates or large birthday celebrations at at 9am or 2pm. It also helps to avoid weekends aka the busiest time of day if you can. You can check for the busiest dining times using Google Maps.

Go Fancy for lunch and Keep it Simple For Dinner

Let’s be real, it’s pretty awkward to sit in a fancy restaurant alone. If you aren’t ready to dive all the way off the deep end, then visit fancier restaurants during lunchtime. You’ll save money because you’ll get to eat off the lunch menu AND you’ll avoid being surrounded by couples & families. If you want to keep it more low-key around dinnertime, then visit a cafe or restaurant with bar seating.

Choose a Small Restaurant

If you’re comfortable dining with others, then choose a small restaurant. For starters, they’re much more cozy and intimate. There’s also a chance that you’ll be seated at a table with others. For example, many restaurants in San Fransisco simply don’t have the space for private tables. You’ll likely be rubbing elbows with the people next to you and this is a great way to feel less alone. Try a food-truck park or visit a coffee shop to dip your feet in the water.

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Tips To Eat Alone Without Actually Eating Alone:

Here are some ways you can join a group of travelers, if you’re not ready to eat completely alone or if you’d simply like to meet people. This is an incredible way to curate unforgettable food experiences, learn more about authentic cuisine directly from local hosts, and meet like-minded people along the way.

Airbnb Experiences

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I absolutely LOVE Airbnb experiences because you can sign up for unique experiences hosted by locals. It’s one of the best ways to get off the beaten path and tailor your travel experiences to your specific interests.

Last year I signed up for a Traditional Three Course Tuscan Lunch in Tuscany, Italy and it absolutely blew my mind. There is no way I could have organically created this experience for myself. Two friendly Italians welcomed myself and a group of strangers into their Tuscan farm house for the best meal of my life. I had a blast learning more about Italian food, stuffing my face, and getting to know the other travelers from around the world.

You can search for food related experiences like cooking classes or locally hosted dinners like this Paella cooking class in Barcelona, this Mexico City taco tour, and this best croissants in Paris tour.

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Nervous to take a trip alone? Here’s how to get the courage to take your first solo trip!

I always loved the idea of traveling solo, but I never thought I’d have the courage to do it.

A few years ago, I had the opportunity to take my first solo trip when a group trip suddenly went sour. I planned a trip to Puerto Rico with two girl friends and their flights were cancelled at the last minute. Needless to say, I was bummed. I had to decide whether I would go on without them or not. I’d never traveled solo and I had no idea where to even start. Ultimately, I wasn’t prepared to take this trip on my own.

Six months later, I decided to take my first solo trip to San Francisco.

Six months after that, I took my first international trip to Costa Rica.

These days, I’ve lost count of how many countries I’ve visited alone.

Despite how much solo travel experience I have now, I still get nervous before every big trip. At the same time, I know that the benefits of traveling solo far outweigh the negatives. The downfalls are part of the journey and I’ve learned to embrace them. I definitely understand how scary solo travel can seem in the beginning, so here’s how to get the courage to take your first solo trip:

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1. Start Small

When you see other people jet-setting across the world, it might make you feel like you should be doing the same. However, it’s important to remember that everyone starts somewhere. Baby steps, my friend. If you aren’t used to being alone, you can start by simply practicing. Learn what it feels like to spend time alone. It will feel extremely uncomfortable in the beginning, but you’ll grow to enjoy it with time. Here’s what you can do to start small:

  • Go to the grocery store, park, mall, movie theatre, and (yes!) even dinner alone

  • Take a day-trip or weekend trip to a nearby town alone
  • Join a group tour! You won’t be completely solo and you’re likely to make lifelong friend

  • Travel alone in your home country before leaving the country solo

  • Travel in an English Speaking Country(If that’s your first language) before facing language barriers

I left the country for the first time during study abroad. I took my second trip abroad with EF College Break, because I wasn’t ready to travel solo. I traveled completely alone for the first time to San Francisco, because I wanted to try a solo trip before I committed to leaving the country alone. I finally took my first solo trip abroad to Costa Rica and had a blast. And, the rest is history! As you begin to take baby steps outside of your comfort zone, you’ll gain the courage to take on bigger and better goals!

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2. Do Your Research

Do plenty of research before committing to your first solo trip. Research which countries and cities are safe for solo female travelers. For example, I’d recommend visiting a country like Iceland(one of the safest countries in the world) instead of India for your first solo trip abroad. Why? There’s an established tourism infrastructure and less of a culture shock. It’s also significantly safer!

Research cultural norms, customs, current political state, things to do, tourism infrastructure, common scams, etc. With a little bit of research, you can make decisions based on facts instead of fear. You’ll also feel more comfortable with your decision to go on this trip.

While it may feel like flying in an airplane is dangerous, the reality is that you’re more likely to to die in a car crash. Data shows that you’re more likely to die from choking than a terrorist attack. I was worried about human trafficking across the world, meanwhile Houston(my hometown) is one of the largest human trafficking hubs in the US. Home feels safer because it’s familiar, but the reality is that bad things can happen anywhere.

RELATED: How To Stay Safe As A Solo Traveler

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3. Block Out The Haters

For many, solo travel is still a strange concept. Your friends & family members may jump to conclusions and they may not understand why you’d ever want to travel alone. While they likely have your best interests in mind, it’s important to block out the negativity. Oftentimes, people project their own doubts and insecurities onto others. It’s gonna be difficult to get the courage to travel solo if family members are bombarding you with horror stories and judgement.

Thank them for their concern and surround yourself with people who support your journey. If you can’t find anyone in real life, search blogs(hello!) and forums where solo travelers have shared personal advice. You can also join Facebook groups like The Solo Female Traveler Network!

RELATED: My Parents Don’t Wan’t Me To Travel Solo

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4. Think About Everything That Could Go RIGHT

It’s easy to think about what could go wrong on your first solo trip, but try your best to focus on everything that could go right.

Instead of worrying about getting lost, think of beauty you could discover when you give yourself the freedom to explore.

Instead of worrying about talking to strangers, think of the beautiful souls you may meet along the way.

Instead of worrying about being alone, think of precious time you’ll have to nurture yourself.

Instead of worrying about dealing with language barriers, think of opportunities you’ll have to learn a new language and challenge yourself.

Try to refocus your thoughts on positive possibilities instead of potential negatives. Things will inevitably go wrong, but you’ll cross that bridge when you get there. You have so much to look forward to!

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5. Be Patient With Yourself

It may be one year or four years before you work up the courage to take your first solo trip. That’s Okay. It’s okay to feel anxious. It’s okay to feel scared. It’s okay to take your time. This is all for you, so there’s no rush. Solo travel is a scary concept for many, so be patient with yourself.

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6. Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway

I cried like a baby when I quit my job to travel solo. My stomach was bubbling over with anxiety and my mind was racing with scary thoughts. I was scared AF, but I quickly realized that I would rather face my fears than live a life of regret. Now, I’ve traveled across the world by myself and It’s been better than I could have ever imagined!

It’s important to be patient with yourself, but it’s also crucial to know that you may not ever feel ready to book that flight or take your first solo trip. You will feel fear and anxiety because you’re stepping into unknown territory, both literally and figuratively. The best way to overcome your fear is to face it. At one point or another, you’ll have to decide to feel the fear and do it anyway!


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